Episode 127 - How to Stop Self-Abandoning: The First Step to Creating a Life That Truly Reflects Your Worth
In this potent and practical episode, Clara shares the most overlooked reason many women stay stuck in inconsistency, burnout, and self-doubt—self-abandonment. You’ll learn how subtle daily behaviours like people-pleasing, overthinking, and breaking your own commitments slowly erode your sense of self-trust and personal power.
Drawing from Radical Self-Honouring, Clara explores what self-abandonment really looks like in business and life—and how you can begin the process of reclaiming your worth, neutrality, and magnetism. This episode is especially for women business owners who feel like they’re doing all the right things but still don’t feel aligned.
Tune in to hear:
What self-abandonment looks like for women business owners.
How victim energy, comparison, and people-pleasing lead to inconsistency.
The first step to building lasting self-trust and creating sustainable success.
Why neutrality protects your creativity and emotional energy.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
How self-abandonment shows up in your business decisions and daily routines.
Practical examples of the micro-decisions that drain your energy and magnetism.
A powerful mindset shift to help you keep your promises to yourself.
Why this is the foundation for building confidence, clarity, and consistency.
Themes & Time Stamps:
[00:00]Introduction to Self-Abandonment
[01:33] Sustainable Success System
[02:22] Extract from the Book: Understanding Self-Abandonment
[03:37] Examples of Self-Abandonment
[08:09] The Impact of Small Choices
[08:54] Methods to Stop Self-Abandonment
[10:00] Conclusion and Book Promotion
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