Episode 130 - The Truth About a Soft Life: It Takes Hard Work
In this episode, I’m sharing a grounded, no-nonsense perspective on the “soft life” narrative you often see online—and why it’s incomplete without a strong foundation of commitment, self-responsibility, and resilience. Many business owners are being sold the idea that alignment and ease simply appear without effort, but in reality, creating sustainable wellbeing and financial success requires intention and work behind the scenes.
We’ll explore the misconceptions perpetuated by feminine spiritual creators that leave many women feeling stuck, broke, or questioning their worth. You’ll hear my take on why ignoring practical structures and energetics keeps you in cycles of frustration—and how to create the clarity and alignment you’re seeking without bypassing the necessary action.
Tune in for a refreshing reality check about what it really looks like to build a life and business that feels soft, expansive, and fully yours.
Tune in to hear:
Why the myth of effortless success is disempowering women in business
What to focus on instead of surface-level rituals and performance
How to cultivate the discipline and clarity that make ease possible
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
How to spot the signs of cognitive dissonance and why it stalls your growth
The importance of clear energetic boundaries and personal responsibility
The real work required to create the financial freedom you desire
Practical steps to move from bypassing into empowered, sustainable action
Themes & Time Stamps:
[00:00] Introduction and Purpose
[01:15] The Myth of the Soft Life
[02:21] Personal Branding Success Stories
[04:07] Substack and Personal Insights
[05:19] Addressing Cognitive Dissonance
[06:17] The Reality of Successful Women
[08:13] Deep Alignment Business Audit
[09:58] The Truth About Feminine Energy
[12:23] Conclusion: Hard Work and Alignment
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